To All,
The only reason I come across this thread, it is becuase BigPaul's name on its title, and then the "Frog Story".
"Blackocean": I tried to reply to your message on 75Ones, but it does not work for me. I can read your message, but can not reply (bug in the tool). In any case, no message of substance wanted to be conveyed in private. I am not the creepy person, to post private commuications onto the chat room on random, I do expect people to speak out, instead of just being a by-stander. Share your story in Japan. I have many of my trip stories to share, but, let's take its time. Sometimes I feel, it is a bit show-off, for me to just tell my story, no listening, especially I express myselfs in English, and not fluent in Chinese now. Enoy your trip, the last word...
"Boy-Friend/Girl-Friend", and then the "Frog Story", and I just complete the identification, on the notion of "Feminism" in one of the Class78 posting. The 3 quotes in the last sentences is quite heavily loaded now. Help me to sort each and every terms in the quote into crisp, clear terms...(It is late at night in N.America, Cheers...)...
小凡, These is a wisdom saying in the West, which goes something like this..."If you love somebody, set him/her free". May be I would add, if you love yourself, set yourself free. After all, if one does not like him/her self, how can he/she loves someone else? Set yourself free, fly like a bird, take the wind as it come...Let us be the wind beneath your wing...