Posting above, translated in Chinese. Sorry, I don’t have time to proof-read the Chinese translation.
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Thank you, BigPaul, for all your photos.
I have to compose my thoughts, while putting it to writings.
>> 梅艺辉, 陈冰枫, 陈汝阳, 李德舜 Photo: Sentimental!
*梅艺辉: his look is as good as expected, first seeing him some 30+ years later. I like him, but don’t know what to say, or how to begin if we meet. He was a good friend of mine, in strange ways, when we grew up. He was wise, and can be very vicious when it comes to street fighting. He always seemed to have a sense of camaraderie among his friends. He had guts, and did not take on any fighting lightly. On the other hand, he never gave his adversaries too much credit, when it comes to fighting, kind of like in the Western Coy Boy fronts, fighting? Bring it on. 梅艺辉 had many friends at that time (may be a gang, I was always loser when it comes to street fighting, I needed a friend like him). I needed a friend, who can introduce me to other friends, who are interested, determined, physically complement to my weakness (I am always loser at fist fighting, but good at swimming, still true) to escape to Hong Kong. I think梅艺辉 always had a strange thought, why I want to be friend with him; I was more of a school boy type…
*陈冰枫: sitting next to梅艺辉, I am responsible for their friendship, seen in this picture, some 30+ years later. It hurts me, to see my good buddy陈冰枫, is going bald (last met, 1989 at ffice:smarttags" />Boston). 陈冰枫, and his family was very generous to me. At Taishen, I visited his house as often as I like, and he always used his bike, when we go swimming, all season long (sorry, my father did not allow me to use the family bike for traveling to the distant reservoir). 陈冰枫, was an Olympian long distant swimmer then, he beats me by about 100 meters in a 3-mile swim, he was that good. Still, 陈冰枫 had a problem, just like me, he was very soft, when it comes to fist fighting. We had a problem. We are very good swimmers, trying to escape to Hong Kong by the water way, but we could be stop/beaten-up, by a couple nasty fist-fighters on the dry land, in any confrontation, along the way. You know what we need next. After I introduced梅艺辉 as our mutual friend, 陈冰枫 and 梅艺辉 became good friends to each other, life time good friend, as seen in this picture. Then, I drifted further away from them, as all my effort was devoted to academic school works, instead of swimming. I saw alternatives to swim my way to Hong Kong, I saw what may be more significant, further down the road…My bonding to these two friends were gradually faded from away from that point on. The separation is clearly more of practical issues, personal interests and aspirations, rather than any conflicts in friendship. 30+years later, I tried to call陈冰枫 a few weeks ago again, with his Boston phone number given some 15 years ago. It is not a valid number any more. This is expected, but still, it is a disappointment. I wish both of them well, I am so glad to see them in this photo…I look forward to seeing both of them and many of our classmates in next year’s reunion… I can keep writing endlessly…But let them speak about me, the wimpy shy/quiet fat boy Yuen…and have a good laugh…
“Are you are you eat”, or “Are you, your words”. There was a deep debate on the subject in the Western philosophy/religion. Simple question: Who are you, what defines you (Especially a long time from now, when class78 is gone)? Are you what you eat? Or are you, your words (what you let others know about you). I pick the last answer. How about you?
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投稿上面,翻译用中文。 抱歉,我没有时间校对中国翻译。
谢谢, BigPaul,所有您的相片。
我必须组成我的想法,当投入它到文字时。
>> 梅艺辉, 陈冰枫, 陈汝阳, 李德舜 相片: 感伤!
*梅艺辉: 他的神色是正如所料,30+几年后首先看见他。 如果我们见面,我喜欢他,但不会什么说或者开始。 当我们长大,他是我的好朋友,奇怪的。 当它来到street(巷)战时,他是明智的,并且可以是非常狠毒的。 他总似乎有commaraderie(同志爱)感觉在他的朋友之中。 他有胆量,和没有承担其中任一战斗轻。 另一方面,他未曾给许多信用的他的敌人,当它来到战斗时,有点儿象在西部Coyboy,战斗?带来它。 梅艺辉 那时有许多朋友(愿是帮会,我总是输家,当它来到street(巷)战时,我需要一个朋友象他)。 我需要朋友,能介绍我给其他朋友,感兴趣,坚定,补全到我的弱点(我总是输家在拳头战斗,但好在游泳上,真实)完全逃脱到香港。 我认为梅艺辉 总有奇怪的想法,为什么我想要是朋友与他; 我是更多男生类型…
*陈冰枫: 坐在旁边梅艺辉 我负责他们的友谊,看见在这张图片,30+ 几年后。 它伤害我,看我的好伙计陈冰枫去秃头(前见面1989年在波士顿)。 陈冰枫 和他的家庭是非常慷慨的对我。 在Taishen,我一样经常参观了他的房子,象我喜欢,并且他总使用了他的自行车,当我们去游泳时,全部长期晒干(抱歉,我的父亲不允许我为旅行使用家庭自行车到遥远的水库)。 陈冰枫 然后是一位Olympian遥远的游泳者,他由大约100米把我难住在 3英哩游泳,他是好那。 但是, 陈冰枫 当它来到拳头战斗时,有一个问题,象我,他是非常软的。 我们有一个问题。 我们是非常好游泳者,设法逃脱到香港由水方式,但我们在干陆可能是中止或由夫妇讨厌的拳头战斗机摔打,在所有交锋。 您知道什么我们其次需要。 在我介绍了之后梅艺辉 作为我们的共同的朋友, 陈冰枫 并且 梅艺辉 在这张图片互相成为了好朋友,如被看见。 然后,我漂移了据他们,当所有我的努力致力了于学术学校工作,而不是游泳。 我看选择游泳我的道路通往香港,我锯什么可以是更加重大的,促进在路下…我的接合对这二个朋友逐渐退色从从那点。 分离清楚地是更多实用问题、个人利益和志向,而不是在友谊上的所有冲突。 30+years后,我设法叫陈冰枫 几个星期前再,当他的波士顿电话号码给不少15年前。 它不再是一个合法的数字。 这期望,但仍然,它是失望。 我很好祝愿他们两个,我是,很高兴看他们在这张相片…我在明年的团聚盼望看见他们两个和许多我们的同学… 我可以继续书写不尽地…,但让他们讲我话,懦弱的害羞或安静的Fat-Boy Yuen …和有好笑…
“您,是您吃”,或者“是您,是您的词”。 有关于主题的一次深刻的辩论在西部哲学或宗教。 简单的问题: 您,是什么谁定义了您(从现在起特别是很长时间,当class78去)时? 您是否是, 您吃的? 或是您,您的词(什么您告诉其他您)。 我采摘最后答复。 您怎么样?You need to speak up…