[原创]记忆中的志远同学 [复制链接]

        前天,志远兄来到我家,一进门就握着我的手,很认真地自我介绍:"我是陈志远".在他的印象中,我俩应该不认识.当我表示早就认得他时,他竟有惊奇之感,毕竟我俩从来没有同班.

       但在我的记忆中,对邻班的志远兄印象颇深:又高又大,又白又胖.讲话慢声柔气,经常脸挂羞羞的女孩子般的笑容,当年就觉得他如是个女生该很漂亮.

       记忆中他有一个哥哥和一个姐姐与我们同校,哥哥与弟弟很相像.姐姐很漂亮.

        志远兄在他的贴中常提到打架的往事,而他留在我记忆中印象最深的事就是打架.大概是初二时,大家在学校操场边的大树下集中(大概是准备去劳动),人群中突然响起吵闹声和拳头声,回神一看:我班的炎雄兄与志远兄打起来了!志远兄连中数拳,节节后退.旁边一帮同学不停喝彩,毕竟在那个年代,看人打架是很刺激的事.可惜我是班长,只有上前劝架,将炎雄兄拉住,让想继续看热闹的同学大失所望.

       其实我觉得志远兄不宜打架,虽然他长得高大,但他不够恶不够狠,太书生气.这点与我相似,我自己也是个不宜打架的人:一是家教严,二是不够狠,所以我有自知之明,从不敢在外打架.

     前天与志远兄喝酒时,我没有提这事,不知他是否记得?三十年后的重逢,发现志远兄没有变-----包括他羞答答的笑容,慢声柔气的讲话,特别是他直率认真得近似童真的个性-----竟然能保持几十年而不变.也许与他离国后一直生活在西方人的圈子里有关-----直教我们这些在大柒缸里浸泡多年的人汗颜......

［此帖子已被 金色田野 在 2007-4-23 21:19:33 编辑过］

虽然是特殊的年代，但也是活泼的年代，同学们在玩泥沙时的欢笑声、争吵声和欢闹、打架的情景仿佛又回到记忆里。

Big Paul ：志远兄是很斯文的那种人。小时候好象没那么高，没那么肥。

Thanks for the vivid memory and description.  It is accurate.

I vaguely remember 炎雄,  I think he eventually became a key volleyball player of the school. 

Why Fat-boy Yuen got involved in so much of this fightings?  It is a puzzle.  Evevery boy

tends to seek his own identity when grown up, especially when martial art was taught, and

 immitated (not an innate gift).

A side note to complements this story, in our elementary school reunion at Taishen a couple

weeks ago, one of the male classmate had a good laugh at me, first time some 30+ years later. 

He rememebers that one time, when we were together at our farm commune, Fat-boy Yuan,

 solicited this classmate's help to beat our cook (Mr.Clumsy Pig Commarade).  I don't know

why Fat-BoyYuan got into such a conflict in the first place, but soliciting a male classmate's

 help to put up a fight with Mr.Clumsy Pig Commarade, says all...how wimpy can it get...you

 know what I  mean...guys...  

志远的文章十分写实，A我字全部唔记得了。佩服！Thank you 您!

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原文由 大眼妹 发表于 2007-4-24 23:17:38 :

志远的文章十分写实，A我字全部唔记得了。佩服！Thank you 您!

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快去检查下是否老人痴呆症开始了

人开始回忆的时候，那就表明开始老了。

可是我固执地认为，回忆是唯一挽回曾经的方式。fficeffice" />

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原文由 ra03680 发表于 2007-4-24 13:04:31 :

Thanks for the vivid memory and description.  It is accurate.

I vaguely remember 炎雄,  I think he eventually became a key volleyball player of the school. 

 

Why Fat-boy Yuen got involved in so much of this fightings?  It is a puzzle.  Evevery boy

tends to seek his own identity when grown up, especially when martial art was taught, and

 immitated (not an innate gift).

 

A side note to complements this story, in our elementary school reunion at Taishen a couple

weeks ago, one of the male classmate had a good laugh at me, first time some 30+ years later. 

He rememebers that one time, when we were together at our farm commune, Fat-boy Yuan,

 solicited this classmate's help to beat our cook (Mr.Clumsy Pig Commarade).  I don't know

why Fat-BoyYuan got into such a conflict in the first place, but soliciting a male classmate's

 help to put up a fight with Mr.Clumsy Pig Commarade, says all...how wimpy can it get...you

 know what I  mean...guys...  

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志远兄的回忆颇有意思.翻译家Big Paul可能太忙,我来代劳一次:

谢谢你生动准确的记忆和描述.

我大概还记得炎雄,我想他后来成为学校排球队的主力队员.

为什么当年的肥佬远老打架?真令人费解.

每个男孩子在他的成长过程中,总是尝试着去证明自己的存在能力,特别是当他学了点武术时,总想试试身手(而非天生好斗).

对打架的故事还有一个旁证:在两星期前我们小学同学的聚会上,一个男同学说我的一个笑话(30多年后的第一次),他记得有一次我们一起在农场时,肥佬远恳求这位同学帮助去打我们的厨师(雷头猪先生).我不知道肥佬远当时为什么会进入这样的冲突,而且还要恳求一个男同学的帮助才去与雷头猪打架......真是太懦弱了点......你们明白我的意思吗......伙计们......