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自私的动机,源自一种不安!在这种不安的情绪下,多数人,都希望占有更多,来满足心底的空虚。

 

人们似乎以为,只有占有,才能够填补自私的需要,才能够填补不安的心灵。于是,各个削尖脑袋,谋求属于自己的利益。

 

我也是其中一员!

 

从小生长在普通的家庭里,跼促的家境培养了节约的习惯,也培养了不安!自私被隐藏在道德的旗帜下,伪装的本领随着年龄增加,日渐完善,一旦涉及利益,总是能够在某个角落里冒出来,悄悄地寻找可以下手的地方,赢得某种好处。

 

虚荣心也在其中成长。暗自的比较和计较,使自己日渐聪明!这种聪明,没有运用在广阔的世界,而是用在狭小的眼前。

 

争斗、算计成为心性中的一部分,内在的自我如同钢铁一样坚硬,随时保护自己,随时跳出来,自以为是的聪明之术,潜入生活中的每一个细节。企图占有更多,企图得到更多!让更多的东西,变成自己的。

 

直到某一天,我在修[觉]的感召下,在老子[道]召唤下,我才明白,其实,你我都只是到此一游,不同的身躯,同样的世界,一样的天空!

 

“你的就是你的,我的也是你的!你的就是我的,我的也是我的!”

 

我以前在听这句话的时候,一直都当作笑话,直到后来联想到自己儿时的想法!那个时候一直认为天下都是我的,都是为我而建造,一切都是为我而发生,小时候觉得这个想法很特别,很真实!

 

这几天,突然明白,原来,世界真的如此简单!

 

为何父亲,不与孩子争利?因为孩子,是父亲的,所以,利是孩子的,也就是父亲的!因此父爱也就顺理成章!如果认为孩子是别人的,就不会那么大方!

 

妻子,是丈夫的!所以,钱给妻子,就不是给别人,而是给自己!

 

如果,你觉得天下人都是你的孩子呢?是否,他们快乐,你就快乐,他们幸福,你就幸福?

如果,你觉得世界都是你的!那条河流是你的!污染了,不是别人的责任,而是你的!清澈了,不是别人受益,而是你的!你是否会真正关心环保?真正关心地球的未来呢?

 

我突然意识到,其实,世界原本就是我的,我根本无需去占有!我不在,世界就不在,我不开心,世界就不开心!我为这一片天空做了什么,这片天空就还给我什么。

 

善待每一个人,本非源自善举而已,而是因为,他们本来就属于我,是我生活的一部分,是我的世界的一部分!我让他们幸福,他们就自然以幸福的笑容回馈给我!

 

我怎么对世界,世界就怎么对我!我给你痛苦,你就会造成我的痛苦!我给你批评,你就会时刻和我对抗!我如何对待生活,生活就如何对待我!原来,这个世界是我自己的,这个社会是我自己的!

 

还好,能够及时明白这个道理,否则,岂不可笑?自己努力去拼,无非是想把原本就是自己的东西挪一个地方保管!换一个人保管!我为何要让自己成为人与物的大管家,而不去享用上天给予我的世界?我为何拼得那么累,去占有原本就是我的天空?

 

世界,原本就是你的!天空原本就是你的!那个让你生气的邻居,其实,是你的——邻居!那个让你讨厌的老板,其实,就是你的世界的你的老板——他的快乐可以给你更多快乐,重点是,你要让他知道,他是你的!他是你的老板!

 

那个卖菜的阿姨,就是你的阿姨!你的,不是别人的!完全因你而存在,你在就在,你不在,一切都不在!对她笑一下,她的笑,就是你的!  你的,我的。都是谁的?

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The Letter

The following day was dull and foggy.The Hall was sur rounded by heavy,low clouds,which opened now and then to show the grim,cold moor and its wet,grey rocks.The weather made us miserable.It was difficult to be cheerful when we felt danger all around us.I thougth of Sir Charles'death,and the awful sound of the hound,which I had now heard twice.Holmes did not believe that there was a supernatural hound.But facts are facts,and I had heard a hound.Was there a huge hound living on the moor?If so,where could it hide?Where did it get its food?Why was it never seen by day? It was almost as difficult to accept a natural explanation as a su pernatural explanation. (maple story mesos)

That morning Sir Henry and Barrymore argued about Selden,the escaped prisoner.Barrymore said that it was wrong to try to catch Selden.

'But the man is dangerous,'said Sir Henry.'He'll do any thing.Nobody is safe until he is in prison again.We must tell the police.'

'I promise he won't break into any house,'said Barrymore,'and he won't cause any trouble.In a few days he will catch a boat for South America.Please don't tell the police about him.If you tell the police,my wife and I will be in serious trouble.'

'What do you say,Watson?' asked Sir Henry,turning to me.

'I don't think he will break into houses,or cause trouble.If he did,the police would know where to look for him and would catch him.He's not a stupid man.'

'I hope you're right,'said Sir Henry.'I'm sure we're breaking the law.But I don't want to get Barrymore and his wife into trouble,so I shall not tell the police.I shall leave Selden in peace.'

Barrymore could not find the words to thank Sir Henry enough.Then he said:'You have been so kind to us that I want to do something for you in return.I have never told any one else.I know something more about poor Sir Charles'death.'

Sir Henry and I jumped up at once.  wow gold

'Do you know how he died?'Sir Henry asked.

'No,sir,I don't know that,but I know why he was waiting at the gate He was going to meet a woman.'

'Sir Charles was meeting a woman?Who was the woman?'

'I don't know her name,'Barrymore said,'but it begins with L.L.'

'How do you know this,Barrymore?'I asked.

'Well,Sir Charles got a letter on the morning of the day he died.It was from Newtown,and the address was in a woman's writing.I forgot all about it,but some time after Sir Charles died my wife was cleaning the fireplace in his study.She found a letter.Most of it was burned,but the bottom of one page was not burned.On it was written:“Please,please,burn this letter,and be at the gate by ten o'clock.L.L.”The paper fell into pieces as my wife went to move it.We don't know who L.L.is,but if you could find out,you might learn more about Sir Charles'death.We haven't told anyone else.We felt it would not be good for poor,kind Sir Charles.But we thought we ought to tell you,Sir Henry.'

The Barrymores left us and Sir Henry turned to me.'If we can find L.L.,the mystery may be at an end,'he said.'What do you think we should do,Watson?' world of warcraft power leveling

'I must write to Holmes at once,'I said,and I went straight to my room and wrote a letter to Holmes,which gave him all the details of Barrymore's story.

On the following day heavy rain fell without stopping.I put on my coat and went for a long walk on the moor.I thought of Selden out on the cold moor in this weather.And I thought of the other man,the mysterious watcher.

As I walked,Dr Mortimer drove past me.He stopped and said he would take me back to the Hall.

'I expect you know almost everybody living near here,'I said.'Do you know a woman whose names begin with the let ters L.L.?'

Dr Mortimer thought for a minute,and then he said:'Yes,Mrs Laura Lyons.She lives in Newtown.'

'Who is she?'I asked. 

'She's Mr Frankland's daughter.'

'What,old Frankland who has the large telescope?'

'Yes,'said Dr Mortimer.'Laura married a painter called Lyons who came to paint pictures of the moor.But he was cruel to her,and after a while he left her.Her father will not speak to her,because she married against his wishes.So her husband and her father have made her life very unhappy.'

'How does she live?'I asked. world of warcraft gold

'Several people who knew her sad story have helped her.Stapleton and Sir Charles gave her some money.I gave a little myself.She used the money to start a typewriting business.'

Dr Mortimer wanted to know why I was asking about Mrs Lyons.However,I preferred to keep the reason secret,and we talked about other things for the rest of the journey.

Only one other thing of interest happened that day.In the evening after dinner I had a few words with Barrymore alone.I asked him whether Selden had left the country.

'I don't know,sir,'Barrymore replied.'I hope he has gone.But I've not heard anything of him since I last left food and some clothes for him,and that was three days ago.'

'Did you see him then?'

'No,sir,but the food and clothes were gone when I next went that way,'Barrymore told me.

'Then Selden was certainly there?'I asked.

'I think so,sir,unless the other man took everything.'

I sat very still and looked hard at Barrymore.'You know there is another man,then?Have you seen him?'

'No,sir,but Selden told me about him a week or more ago.He is hiding from someone,too,but he is not an escaped prisoner.I don't like it,sir.Something evil is going to happen,I'm sure.Sir Henry would be much safer in London.'

'Did Selden tell you anything more about the other man?'I asked.

'He looked like a gentleman.He was living in one of the old stone huts on the moor.A boy works for him and brings him all the food and things he needs.That's all Selden told me.' world of warcraft power leveling

I thanked him,and he left me.I went to the window and looked out at the rain and the clouds.It was a wild night.I knew the huts Barrymore had spoken about.There were many of them on the moor.They had been built many hundreds of years ago by the people who lived on the moor.They would not keep a man warm and dry in bad weather.Selden could not choose to live anywhere else,but why did the other man live in such conditions?

I sat and thought what I should do next.I decided I must try to find the man who had been watching us.Was he the en emy who had been following us since the very beginning in London? If he was,and I could catch him,perhaps our diffi culties would be at an end.

I also decided to hunt the man on my own.Sir Henry was still shaken by the terrible cry we had heard on the moor.I did not want to add to his troubles or to lead him into more danger.

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同一个世界,同一个天空!
   很有深度,给人启发!
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有个教授和一个学生一起散步。他们在小道上看到一双鞋,估计是在附近干活的人的。学生对教授说:“我们把他的鞋藏起来,躲到树丛后面,看他找不到鞋子的感受怎么样?”教授比较有教养,他说:“我们不能把自己的快乐建立在那人的痛苦之上。你可以通过他给自己带来更多快乐——你在每只鞋里放上一枚硬币,然后躲起来观察他的反应。” 学生照做了,随后他们躲进了旁边的树丛。
    那个人干完了活儿,回到这里,一边穿衣服,一边把脚伸进鞋里。突然感到鞋里有个硬东西,弯下腰去摸,竟然发现一枚硬币。他的脸上充满着惊讶和欣喜。他继续去穿另一只鞋,又发现了另一枚硬币。他激动地仰望着蓝天,大声表达自己的感激之情,他的话语中谈及了生病和无助的妻子、没有东西吃的孩子……学生被深深地感动了,他的眼中充满了泪花。这时教授说:“你是不是觉得这比恶作剧更有趣呢?”年轻人说:“我感觉到了以前从不曾懂得的一句话——给予比接受更快乐!”
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